Ever find yourself in a bed-less dilemma but horny as all hell? We’re with you. So we’ve compiled a list of the best sex positions that don’t require a mattress.
These exciting alternatives can keep the passion alive, no matter where you are or what your bed is made from. So here goes, we’re diving straight on in.
The best sex positions that don’t require a bed
The hammock
Channel your inner athlete with this sex position that pulls no punches when it comes to pleasure. The penetrative partner sits on a sturdy surface, such as a chair or bench (probably not a cardboard box), while the receiving partner lowers onto their lap, facing the same direction. As the penetrative partner holds onto the rider’s wrists and leans back, the rider leans forward until almost straight, bracing with their ankles behind their partner’s back. This position is all about combining intimacy with adventure, throwing a core strengthening workout into the mix too! Challenge your core strength and balance for a thrilling pseudo-mile-high experience.
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If the sensation of floating gets too intense, move the receiving partner back into their partner’s lap for a more supported and intimate connection, either facing the same direction or turning around to face toward each other. To elevate this position further, try wearing open-back lingerie that showcases your peachy behind, enhancing the visual appeal. The Hammock isn’t just a position; it’s an experience that invites you to explore new challenges together (which we know builds intimacy and connection). Acknowledge there can be moments of awkwardness/laughter throughout and this too can add to the playfulness of sexual experiences.
Babe bend over
Not only can you achieve incredibly deep penetration in this position, but the giver gets one heck of a VIP view all-session-long. The receiver stands with their back to the giver, who then penetrates them. The giver holds their partner’s hips while the receiver leans forward onto their hands, putting their legs behind their partner’s and creating an upside-down V shape. This setup allows the giver to be in complete control of the depth of penetration, angle, and pace, making it an ideal position for those who love to take charge. As always, continue to check-in with your partner on depth, speed etc., and ask them ‘what could make this even better?’.
For an added visual element, introducing a mirror while getting down to it is a quick and effortless way to up the spice factor. Not only do you get to see your bodies from a whole new angle, but the visual sense is a key contributor to arousal for many, so this adds to the excitement! To make the experience even more electrifying, consider using a skin-tingling orgasm balm or gel.
This position is a great way to explore power play, and with an unbeatable view has the potential for both visually and physically satisfying stimulation.
Mission impossible
If you and your partner are of significantly different sizes, positions like missionary can be somewhat of a logistical challenge. If that’s the case, Mission Impossible is a fantastic option for mixed-height couples. Not only does this position allow better alignment for sessions you’ll both love, but you’ll look ultra-hot while doing it.
The giver stands behind the receiver, who holds onto a sturdy chair and pushes their behind up high to be penetrated. This standing position works well for couples of differing weights because no one’s lying on top of anyone, and the chair provides good stability.
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If the giver is shorter, simply pull the chair closer and have the receiver lean on the seat on their forearms. This minor adjustment ensures everyone is comfortable and well-supported. To take this position to the next level, consider incorporating hands-free toys like a butt plug. With everyone’s hands busy supporting one another, these toys will add another exciting dimension of sensation, making Mission Impossible a satisfying choice for couples of all sizes.
Reverse cowgirl
Perfectly angled for G-spot stimulation and visually appealing for the seated partner, Reverse Cowgirl is a fantastic position that can lead to sensational shared climaxes because of the stimulation of the internal g-spot as well as the potential for dual external clitoral stimulation through grinding on the legs (or incorporating a wearable toy). One partner assumes a seated, slightly reclined position on a chair, or sofa. The other partner faces away and straddles on bended knees, supporting their position by placing their hands on their lover’s legs for stability. With their legs slightly parted, they can reverse onto their lover to begin penetration with a penis or a strap-on.
This setup offers the giving partner a front-row view of the action while allowing the receiving partner to control the pace and depth of penetration.
Power oral
Standing oral may seem like a simple variation to something that most perform laying down, but the shift in positioning adds an arousing element of power-play without needing to get the whips, chains and handcuffs out. With no surfaces or ‘tools’ needed, this position can be done anywhere, anytime! For the receiving partner, stand over your partner while they kneel below you, positioning their face in between your legs so they can worship your entire pelvic and genital region.
If the receiver has a penis, the giver can use their hands on the shaft while softly licking the tip, or use the hands to rub the inner thighs, testicles or even incorporate anal stimulation via circling around the anus or inserting a finger (with lubricant) and massaging the prostate. If the receiver has a vulva, start soft and slow, teasing around the vulva before becoming more targeted with external clitoral stimulation, making sure to check in with your partner (or should I say your master in this position). You can incorporate dual internal and external stimulation by using your mouth and lips over the clitoral bulb and a finger or toy internally. You can even flip the power balance by holding the receiving partner against a wall (with consent of course), locking them into play so you can take back the power of their pleasure!
Lock ‘n’ rock
In this position, the receiving partner gets on top, facing their partner’s feet. The penetrating partner sits up and holds their partner’s hips for stability. For an adventurous twist, bondage ropes can be used to secure legs and maintain position, enhancing the overall experience.
Rear-entry positions tend to be the most effective for G- and P-spot stimulation, and this one is no exception. If you’re already a fan of doggie-style but looking to shake things up, this is the perfect love-making position for you. The riding partner can tighten their grip with their legs and hands to pin their partner in place once they’re hitting the spot. To secure the position, try incorporating some bondage restraints.
Hard press
Enjoy all the benefits of doggy style while lying down with Hard Press. This rear-entry position allows the penetrating partner to ease slowly into play and control the pace of penetration, while the receiving partner revels in G-spot or P-spot stimulation. A win for both! The receiving partner lies on their front, resting on their elbows with their legs pressed together. The giving partner kneels behind, placing their hands on either side of their partner’s back in a press-up-like position as they thrust away.
This position is perfect if you want to take things slow. The receiving partner’s legs are pressed together, which means their lover slides between their thighs for access to their G-spot or P-spot. This reduces the depth of penetration and could potentially help to delay climax. It’s also ideal for people who may experience discomfort due to their partner having a larger penis or other discomfort with penetration. If you find this position puts strain on the receiver’s lower back and legs, try elevating their bottom by placing a sex position ramp or pillow under their hips. This will allow them to adjust the angle of their hips and make the experience a lot more comfortable, especially if they are lying on a hard surface.
Buck tradition…
With these variations to your traditional ‘bed-based’ positions, athletes and anyone else can enjoy intimate moments without the need for a bed (cardboard or otherwise). Whether you’re competing on a global stage or simply exploring new dynamics in your relationship, creativity and a sense of adventure can keep the passion alive.
Remember, the key to great sex is communication, curiosity and centring pleasure. Don’t be afraid to explore and enjoy these new positions with your partner, and always prioritise consent and mutual pleasure.
Christine Rafe is Lovehoney’s in-house sex and relationship expert.
