While sex swings might make you think of Christian Grey’s sex chamber in Fifty Shades, they don’t have to be this intense piece of furniture reserved for super kinky couples. And they don’t all require you to drill holes in the ceiling with a potentially intimidating setup. They are literally for anyone who wants to have better sex.
A swing allows you to try out sex positions and hit new angles you simply can’t when having sex on a bed. Think of it as a sex position enhancer, helping you to achieve otherwise fairly challenging antics with ease. And with that comes more adrenaline, more sweat, and best of all, more orgasms.
The thing is, there are so many types of sex swings—some much better than others and some much more intricate and intense than others (more on that below). So to help you find the best one for you and your partner, we’ve picked some of our faves. Read on, dear friends.
The types of sex swings
Almost ready to swing into action? You’ll need to decide which swing is for you, as they usually fit into three categories: door swings, sex slings and sex swings.
Over-the-door swings: Mounted over a normal door, these are quick and easy to install. They tend to offer a simple strap to support your partner and sometimes come with additional straps for ankles and wrists.
Sex slings: These come with a frame or require a sturdy ceiling fastening. They’re a little more simple but there’s more more mobility compared to a door swing.
Sex swings: Usually made from leather, sex swings tend to be more durable, but also more expensive. They offer the widest range of motion and potential positions, and generally require some sort of ceiling suspension point to mount them from.
How to hang a sex swing
To get the best use of your sex swing, follow the manufacturer guidelines on the individual product. If you need to attach it to your ceiling and you’re not DIY-savvy, ask a friend or call your local handyman. It might be a bit embarrassing in the moment, but safety is paramount.
How to safely use a sex swing
The most important thing to consider when it comes to using a sex swing safely at home is how and where you are going to mount it: make sure that at least one of you can reach the ground at all times and start small and aim for a low hung and safe spot with soft cushions and carpeting underneath.
The best sex swings to buy now
Best For Beginners:
Bondage Boutique Soft Over-The-Door Sex Swing
If you haven’t tried a sex swing before, sex toy retailer Lovehoney recommends the Bondage Boutique Soft Over-The-Door Sex Swing. “It’s got padded adjustable straps, and just slips over the top of a closed door for fun in a flash,” says Lovehoney sexpert Sammi Cole.
Best For Contortionists:
DOMINIX Deluxe Fantasy Bondage Swing
This is ultimate accessory for sexual acrobatics. It comes with padded straps and stirrups to provide ample support in a variety of positions, and has a 360-degree rotation for fun in every position.
Best For Extra Support:
Purple Reins Sex Sling
The Purple Reins Sex Sling gives you sturdy support and extra comfort thanks to the padding and reinforced Nylon straps. Plus, it can take up to 139kg of weight to give you or your partner extra peace of mind.
Most Discreet Swing:
MEMAX Aerial Yoga Swing Sling Strong Yoga Hammock Kit
If you’re keen to explore sex swings discreetly, try an Aerial Yoga Swing. You can easily install this swing and just claim to anyone who sees it that you’re really focused on your fitness.
Best Spinning Sex Swing:
Bondara Fetish Fantasy Series Spinning Sex Swing
The Spinning Fantasy Swing is ideal for lovers of various sizes because it is simple to adjust to any height or angle, saving you from forcing your body into uncomfortable positions that would inhibit your partner’s arousal. It also rotates 360 degrees, allowing you to spin freely while you swing with a wider range of motion than traditional stationary swings.
The Best Non-Swing Swing:
X-Gen WhipSmart Body Swing
X-Gen’s WhipSmart Body Swing allows you to swing while attached to the body. It’s user-friendly, with padded straps rubber grip handles. It’s also a great workout for the swing provider, testing that core as things get freaky. Just put the swing on your chest and invite your partner to strap in via their hips, shoulder or thighs for the sexy ride of a lifetime.
Best Zero Gravity Sex Swing:
Strict Extreme Sling & Swing Stand
While on the expensive end, this extreme sling and swing stand provides a secure and comfortable way to explore kinky play. This one’s all about making you feel utterly weightless, is easy to set up, and the sling is designed to allow full access to your partner as they eagerly await, legs spread, suspended in air.
Best For Small Spaces:
Sportsheets Sex Swing Door Jam Kit
Another one designed to sling over the entrance to your bedroom/living room/kitchen, this is a must-have accessory if you live in rented accommodation. There’s no risk of damage to your ceiling – or walls if you live in a tiny studio and don’t have space to swing a cat.
Best Advanced Sex Swing:
Master Series Throne Adjustable Sex Swing with Stand
If you feel like a splurge, this is the sew swing for you. It comes with a stand, meaning no screwing into ceilings or hunting around the house for the safest place to set up. While large, it’s a great swing with tonnes of support and a plush throne to sit on. The swing adjusts from 90 to 180 degrees and the leather pads feel great.
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